What Happened to Common Courtesy

What’s Happened to Common Courtesy?
Confucius: “When music and courtesy are better understood and appreciated, there will be no war.”

Common Courtesy could be defined as:
A courteous act
A generous behavior
Acting politely
Behaving with consideration
Being kind to others

To demonstrate my concern for what has happened to common courtesy, I even found it defined using four letter words.

What has happened to common courtesy?
A couple of days ago, I was nearly run over in the store by a thirty-year-old mother and her two kids. No apology, no recognition, nothing.

Too often these days, this seems to be the prevailing behavior; the general attitude is “Me, me, me”.
I’m 81 years old, I still open doors for the elderly, disabled and others. What’s happened to our courtesy and good manners?

Why does our society seem so angry?
We didn’t used to have:
Road rage
Work place shootings
School shootings
Kids beating other kids
Parents beating each other and their kids.
We used to wave to people on the road. Now, we give them a one finger salute. It’s not pretty.

Is it the economy?
The political evil in Washington?
Is it too many people?
Is it the proliferation of cell phones?
What’s happened?

I don’t know what has caused it. I do know it can be changed by one person at a time changing their behavior.

Unknown:
“It is difficult to find a courteous person today who isn’t trying to sell you something.”

One of the things you can do, is to take a look at your anger. Who did it to you? Who made you mad?

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List everyone you blame for your life and everyone you resent. Who done you wrong? What did they do? Write it down. Then forgive every one of them, release them and let it go.
It’s simple say something like, “John, I no longer blame and resent you. I bless you; I release you.”
Reexamine your list. Then make an amends to all the people you blame and resent.

Finally, release resentment and blame from your consciousness.
When did you loss faith in mankind? When did you notice the world was an angry place?

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Eye Contact installment two

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Ready to resume eye contact?

So are the eyes a window to the soul? I’d say so.
What is the power of ey
e contact?

Ralph Waldo Emerson:
“An eye can threaten like a loaded gun, or it can insult like hissing or kicking or in its altered mood, be a beam of kindness. It can make the heart dance for joy.”
Although words will probably never be found to communicate what actually transpires when you are communicating with another living creature through eye contact. Maybe it should it be “I” contact?
Besides touch, eye contact is the most powerful way of delivering personal cues.
For instanc
e, eye contact shows personal involvement and creates intimate bonds. Mutual gazing narrows physical gaps. It brings people closer.
The eyes play an indispensable role in effective communication and the building relationships.
The look of love; remember that look and the physical wham when wordlessly you knew you were attracted.
What can you say with the eyes?
Eye contact says to the other person:
I am interested in you
I respect you
I trust you
You have my attention
I value you

 

 

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Now get  this, there is the avoidance of eye contact like the elevator stare. Fear of making eye contact with strangers and wild animals. Eye contact can be perceived as a challenge a precursor to aggression.
We probe each others eyes for mood signs like:
Let’s face it, trust can be developed almost immediately through eye contact.
Flirting a coy glance can be the beginning of all sorts of things
Bonding eye contact immediately brings two people closer
Feedback on how others are receiving you.
Winking says you and I know.
Our eyes are wonderful gifts. They help us express our feelings of:
Love
Acceptance
Hope
Warning
Fear
Anger
And much more, without a word.
Not maintaining eye contact in this country carries the connotation that the person is not trustworthy.
In other countries maintaining eye contact may be considered rude and disrespectful.
What does eye movement mean?

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1st Installment of Eye Contact

Learn the Power of Eye Contact
What is eye contact?
Several popular definitions are:
1. Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal channels you have for communicating and connecting with others.
2. Defined as a meeting of the eyes between two people expresses meaningful nonverbal communication.
3. Contact that occurs when two people look directly at each other or when two people or animals look into each others eye at the same time.
4. It is the condition or action of looking another human or animal in the eye.
5. Linda Eve Diamond: “The cheapest, most effective way to connect with people is to look them in the eye.”

What does eye contact do?
Eye contact can trigger:
Fighting
Smiling
Acknowledgment
Invitation
Understanding
Encouragement

Eye contact is two souls touching. Imagine, all the power your eyes hold.
Of all the ways we communicate, eye contact maybe the most powerful. The first step in establishing communication is eye contact.

Communication with pets and animals is with eye contact, and depending on the animal you maintain or avoid contact.
Did you ever look at a horse and know that your souls had communicated?
Have you ever looked at your dog and known that the two of you connected at a spiritual level?

My best friend and I can communicate volumes with just a glance.
So are the eyes a window to the soul? I’d say so.

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2nd Half of 30 Days to Peace of Mind

3. March to your own Drum
Let’s suppose you hear a different drummer; Henry David Thoreau said,
“If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears; however measured or far away”
After all, the drummer is the small voice within calling us. When we pay no attention, our external experiences take the form of:
●    Unrest
●    Dis ease
●    Resentments
●    Worry
●    Fear
Just think about this, a burning desire may be the drummer within, the small voice saying. “Hear me”




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5. Constant vigil on you thoughts
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Thoughts are things. You can live a life full of joy, peace of mind and abundance or one of sadness, worries and lack. The choice is yours. Choose your thoughts wisely.
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2nd Half of Eye Contact

Besides touch, eye contact is the most powerful way of delivering personal cues.
Eye contact shows personal involvement and creates intimate bonds. Mutual gazing narrows physical gaps. It brings people closer.
The eyes play an indispensable role in effective communication and the building relationships.
The look of love; remember that look and the physical wham when wordlessly you knew you were attracted.
What can you say with the eyes? Eye contact says to the other person:
I am interested in you
I respect you
I trust you
You have my attention
I value you
Then there is the avoidance of eye contact like the elevator stare. Fear of making eye contact with strangers and wild animals. Eye contact can be perceived as a challenge a precursor to aggression.
We probe each others eyes for mood signs like:
Trust can be developed almost immediately through eye contact.
Flirting a coy glance can be the beginning of all sorts of things
Bonding eye contact immediately brings two people closer
Feedback on how others are receiving you.
Winking says you and I know.
Our eyes are wonderful gifts. They help us express our feelings of:
Love
Acceptance
Hope
Warning
Fear
Anger
And much more, without a word.
Not maintaining eye contact in this country carries the connotation that the person is not trustworthy.
In other countries maintaining eye contact may be considered rude and disrespectful.
What does eye movement mean?
Eye contact gives you valuable clues as to what a person is thinking.
Kinesthetic people tend to look down
Visual people tend to look up
Auditory people tend to look sideways
People who look left to gather thoughts tend to be religious, artistic. They are most likely remembering.
People who look to the right tend to be scientific
People who look up and right may be constructing or making up an answer.
Eye contact can mean permission to speak or it can be a command; like when you say to someone “look at me when I’m talking to you.”
We’re demanding their attention; also, that they join us at a deeper level.
People who are autistic or have social anxiety problems experience trouble maintaining eye contact as do liars.
When might you want to make eye contact?
When you want to say hello without a word.
To exchange a warm greeting
In the store to brighten someone’s day
At dinner
In an interview
At a party
Playing a team sport
When might you want to avoid eye contact?
Walking down a dark alley
Face to face with a bear or other predatory animal
While driving
Ralph Waldo Emerson:
“On of the most wonderful things in nature is the glace of the eye; it transcends speech; it is the bodily symbol of identity.”
You can learn to maintain good eye contact. Practice doing it.
Make eye contact and smile at a stranger, can’t hurt.
Maintaining eye contact helps keep you focused on what the other person is saying; rather than thinking ahead to what you want to say.
In Western culture a shifty eyed person is judged badly; they are suspicious, up to no good.
Mahatma Gandhi:
“An eye for an eye and soon the whole world is blind.”
SUMMARY
Benjamin Franklin:
“Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut afterwards.”
In our society there is an increased need for interaction. Think of the joy you can spread by making eye contact and a smiling at the checker in the store, the wait person, or a passer by on the street.
It sends positive vibes. It is a sign of a confident person
Build self confidence . . . Practice eye contact

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Using Horse Sense

W.C. Fields:
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W.C. Fields:
“Horse
sense is the thing a horse has which keeps it from betting on people.”

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“Horse sense is stable thinking”

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The Power of I Contact

Learn the Power of Eye Contact – What is eye contact?

Several popular definitions are:
1. Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal channels you have for communicating and connecting with others.
2. Defined as a meeting of the eyes between two people expresses meaningful nonverbal communication.
3. Contact that occurs when two people look directly at each other or when two people or animals look into each others eye at the same time.
4. It is the condition or action of looking another human or animal in the eye.
5. Linda Eve Diamond:
“The cheapest, most effective way to connect with people is to look them in the eye.”

What does eye contact do?
Eye contact can trigger:
Fighting
Smiling
Acknowledgment
Invitation
Understanding
Encouragement

Eye contact is two souls touching. Imagine, all the power your eyes hold.
Of all the ways we communicate, eye contact maybe the most powerful. The first step in establishing communication is eye contact.

Communication with pets and animals is with eye contact, and depending on the animal you maintain or avoid contact.

Did you ever look at a horse and know that your souls had communicated?
Have you ever looked at your dog and known that the two of you connected at a spiritual level?

My best friend and I can communicate volumes with just a glance.

So are the eyes a window to the soul? I’d say so.
What is the power of eye contact? Ralph Waldo Emerson:
“An eye can threaten like a loaded gun, or it can insult like hissing or kicking or in its altered mood, be a beam of kindness. It can make the heart dance for joy.”

Words will probably never be found to communicate what actually transpires when you are communicating with another living creature through eye contact. Maybe it should it be “I” contact?

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